That is the only reason I am staying right now.
The first time was less than a year after our marriage with a girl 25 years his junior.
First things first — step away from both of them This is very significant because the shock and anger that strikes the woman upon this discovery are so huge, they are likely to leave you in a very raw and charged emotional state making you unfit to hold any discussions on the spot.
And when the opportunity arises, he takes it.